advice I would give the younger generation if they would listen to me
I lost my virginity young, took drugs young, had successes and failures young, knew poverty young, moved out of home young, travelled somewhat and have had many adventures, scrapes, high, lows and in betweens. So here is some advice that I would offer to the younger generation.
1. Girls - Never ever shave your face.
2. Being a woman is something to be treasured.
3. If that relationship is going nowhere don't be afraid to leave.
4. Stand up to your boss.
5. Read your rights especially with regards to property, work conditions and your health.
6. You are not an antifeminist for enjoying the company of men.
7. Subtlety is more powerful than Shock.
8. Black dresses, pearls, white cotton shirts and a good watch will never go out of style.
9. That said, wear whatever makes you feel comfortable.
10. If you want to know what a man will be like in twenty years meet his father.
11. Never be afraid of what you can do with your body.
12. Cleanse and moisturise daily.
13. Wear sunscreen
14. You can change the world, be thoughtful with your decisions.
15. Money will not make you happy forever.
16. Always carry birth control.
17. Do not rely on others to make you happy. Learn what makes you happy.
18. Be mindful of what you put in your body - it has side effects.
19. Some people like you for who you are.
20. Other don't, accept this.
21. It is no crime to open a door for another person, say please and thank you. Good manners will set you apart.
22. Listen to your grandmother/grandfather - she/he has way more experience than you.
23. Learn what you can, knowledge is power.
24. Listen to your friends, they know more about you than sometimes you do yourself.
25. Be open with your emotions, don't shut yourself away if you have been hurt.
26. Eat fish or take omega three oils.
27. Be careful how treat others - you never know where they will be 5 years from now.
28. get your license as soon as possible.
29. Test your intellect.
30. Life is not work, do not deny yourself the pleasures of friends, family and holidays.
31. Learn how to cook three basic meals before you are eighteen.
32. Learn how to change a bike/car tyre, fill your water tank, oil reserve and change spark plugs.
33. Tell your partner you love them with meaning.
34. A little bit of naughty is good for you.
35. Have faith and confidence in your own ability to survive.
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I'm feeling very pensive today. A little old hippyish sort of pensive. The first wrinkles are popping around my eyes (note no.36 LOVE YOUR WRINKLES) and I'm just not the cool young chick around town that I used to be. I feel old, used, wizened today. I can't pin point where this has come from. There is no wit, no real sparkle, no major inspiration.
A note for those others who have felt bleh (Fluffy, M!key) - There has been a triangles of planets causing a bit of grief since Monday, which might explain it.
7 days til my holidays and here's hoping, a new lease on life.
1. Girls - Never ever shave your face.
2. Being a woman is something to be treasured.
3. If that relationship is going nowhere don't be afraid to leave.
4. Stand up to your boss.
5. Read your rights especially with regards to property, work conditions and your health.
6. You are not an antifeminist for enjoying the company of men.
7. Subtlety is more powerful than Shock.
8. Black dresses, pearls, white cotton shirts and a good watch will never go out of style.
9. That said, wear whatever makes you feel comfortable.
10. If you want to know what a man will be like in twenty years meet his father.
11. Never be afraid of what you can do with your body.
12. Cleanse and moisturise daily.
13. Wear sunscreen
14. You can change the world, be thoughtful with your decisions.
15. Money will not make you happy forever.
16. Always carry birth control.
17. Do not rely on others to make you happy. Learn what makes you happy.
18. Be mindful of what you put in your body - it has side effects.
19. Some people like you for who you are.
20. Other don't, accept this.
21. It is no crime to open a door for another person, say please and thank you. Good manners will set you apart.
22. Listen to your grandmother/grandfather - she/he has way more experience than you.
23. Learn what you can, knowledge is power.
24. Listen to your friends, they know more about you than sometimes you do yourself.
25. Be open with your emotions, don't shut yourself away if you have been hurt.
26. Eat fish or take omega three oils.
27. Be careful how treat others - you never know where they will be 5 years from now.
28. get your license as soon as possible.
29. Test your intellect.
30. Life is not work, do not deny yourself the pleasures of friends, family and holidays.
31. Learn how to cook three basic meals before you are eighteen.
32. Learn how to change a bike/car tyre, fill your water tank, oil reserve and change spark plugs.
33. Tell your partner you love them with meaning.
34. A little bit of naughty is good for you.
35. Have faith and confidence in your own ability to survive.
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I'm feeling very pensive today. A little old hippyish sort of pensive. The first wrinkles are popping around my eyes (note no.36 LOVE YOUR WRINKLES) and I'm just not the cool young chick around town that I used to be. I feel old, used, wizened today. I can't pin point where this has come from. There is no wit, no real sparkle, no major inspiration.
A note for those others who have felt bleh (Fluffy, M!key) - There has been a triangles of planets causing a bit of grief since Monday, which might explain it.
7 days til my holidays and here's hoping, a new lease on life.
posted by LadyCracker at 12:26 pm
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